We Are Only Leaders.
We are not experts. We're your next door neighbors. We're not
perfect; we are just parents like you.
We don't have any more spare time
or energy than you do, we all work full time and juggle our families and our
schedules and try to keep it all together as best we can.
The only
difference between us is that we believe in what Scouting has to offer. So much
so, that we contribute our time, our miles, and our talents to help our scouts
grow in Scouting.
We complete authorization forms, budgets, and
registrations, and fill our homes with boxes of paperwork that you will never
see.
We are required to take many hours of training as well as attend
various meetings so that we can meet our greatest challenge - providing a
variety of programs which meet the needs and interests of every individual
scouts.
We try to involve parents who want us to understand that they
don't have the time to drive on outings or help at meetings. We rejoice at the
generosity of others.
Sometimes we find ourselves going in too many
directions, we run out of steam. We have memory lapses. Communication lines
break down. Time slips by. But that doesn't mean we don't care.
So many
evenings we spend on the phone, seeking advice and support from other leaders
when disappointments or problems occur. "How do I keep my scouts' attention?"
"What are your ideas for the ceremony?" "How do you work with scouts in
different grades?"
Our dining tables are covered with bits of rope,
menus, trip permits, craft supplies, paper work and badges for each and every
boy in the pack. A couple of them won't show up, and don't think to call and let
us know. Sometimes we feel unappreciated.
Yet, these scouts can fill us
with pride at their determination and accomplishments. Their smiles light up a
room; and when they say "Thank You" it makes it all worth it.
We help
these scouts build relationships. Some struggle more than others. Considerate,
loyal, helpful, friendly... is encouraged by the Scout Promise. And sometimes we
too must learn these lessons over and over again with the scouts. But we are
willing to keep learning.
Please be patient if we appear distracted or
frustrated or overwhelmed at times. Forgive us if we are not the kind of Leader
you would be if you had the time. Instead, provide us with encouragement or
offer your help. Keep us in your thoughts and prayers.
We are, after all,
only mentors...role models...leaders. Volunteers who have taken an oath to give
these scouts, your scouts, the most precious gift we have to offer - the gift of
time.